Time for another rousing rendition* of Ask the Schnoz.
*this is the first rendition
Schnoz,
I wanted to get your take on Bill Simmons. I first started reading Bill Simmons in 1997 and I really enjoy reading/listening to him. I know from your blog that you feel the same way. He has always toed the line, but it seems that he is getting more and more sexual in his writings/podcast. Sometimes I wonder if it is wrong for me to be listening to a lot of the stuff they are talking about. I sort of feel the same way about Deadspin. I haven’t visited that site as much, but the sexuality really seems to throw me for a loop.
Anyway, I respect your opinion and I’d love to get your take on Simmons and Deadspin and how we should interact with the sites as Christians.Hope you’re having a great week and best wishes with the book,
Mark
Great question Mark. While I don’t go back quite as far as you do as a Simmons’ fan, his writing and podcasts have been a large part of my life for the past 7+ years. His opinions are informed, his writing is humorous, and he seems like a good guy. What’s not to like? Well, one thing not to like is the repeated references to porn that Bill has employed throughout his tenure at ESPN. In the past these were usually passing jokes in a sports column or quick hitters in a mailbag column. But as Mark mentioned, the sex references have definitely been increasing of late. I won’t get into them all here, but suffice it to say that since the “The B.S. Report occasionally touches on mature subjects…” tag has been added to the beginning of his podcasts, he’s definitely ventured into some racy material a lot more frequently. I’m not going to judge him for it…it is what it is…but if the question is “How should we interact with Bill Simmons’ writing and with Deadspin as Christians?” My answer is “thoughtfully”.

First off, there’s no hard and fast rule for Christians as to whether it’s okay or not okay to listen to this podcast or read that website or see this movie. I’m not down with religious rules, or legalism, or whatever you want to call it. And honestly, I’m glad there’s no rules. Generic rules put in place to deem some things offensive and some permissible wouldn’t work for everyone. It might keep me from things that I would otherwise have no problem with and allow things to be filtered through that might not be good for me.
Instead, I believe it is up to each one of us to discern things on a case by case basis based on our past, our circumstances, and our goals, all with the help of God’s Spirit. (and with the help our our friends…or as the Bible puts it, Godly counsel)
Here’s how it works for me personally (if you don’t mind me getting personal for a minute): Like you, I try to keep my mind pure and live by the creed that Jesus spoke about lusting after other woman and how it is committing adultery with them. This is my goal based on past struggles, where I’m at with my relationship with my wife, and how I want to live going forward. As a result I try to avoid media where racy pictures of women are broadcast (from movies to websites and things in between) and I try to avoid thinking about other women in a sexual way. I know this is completely counter to a sex-obsessed culture like ours, but whatever.
Considering my goals, have I been able to do that to this point as I’ve read Bill’s columns and listened to his podcast? Yes. Have I been able to do that while keeping Deadspin in my feedreader? Yes. Have I been able to do that while listening to Bill Simmons appear as a guest on the Adam Carolla podcast? No. (I tried to listen to the Carolla podcast both times Bill appeared on it but both times I turned it off halfway through because I didn’t like where it was taking my mind…and I am laughing while I type that because they’d probably get a kick out of hearing that.)
I’ll be honest, it would be really hard for me to quit Bill Simmons cold turkey. I love the work he does. But if he ever leaves ESPN and all of his articles and podcasts went as racy as I think they might go, I’d definitely need to re-evaluate. At the very least, I might have to take each article and podcast on a case by case basis. It’s not about being a prude or tiptoeing through life on eggshells because I’m afraid of sinning. It’s not about labeling Bill Simmons as evil or bad because of the topics he covers. For me it’s just about trying to honor God with who I am, trying to love my wife the way she deserves to be loved, and trying to do what I feel is right. And for each of us, that will probably look slightly different. (For instance, I kept Deadpsin in my feed, but I’ve developed the habit of immediately turning away from racy photos when I first see them. I know to most guys this is the most ridiculous and counter-intuitive thing in the world, but I knew I had to develop that habit if I was going to continue to get news from Deadspin, which I wanted to do.)
To wrap this up, I think you’re on the right track, Mark, in that you’re listening to your conscience and asking the questions that need to be asked. With God’s help we all need to continue to be aware of what we’re consuming and how it makes us think and what it makes us do. If the results we are experiencing line up with who we are and who we want to be, that’s great. But if we find ourselves going down paths in our thoughts or actions that we don’t want to go down, we’d be foolish to ignore it.
Oh, and thanks about the book. I’m having a blast writing it.
The Schnoz
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